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Being an aware citizen on the OSU campus is an important part of being a member of our community. Whether it's being aware of your surroundings, filing a complaint, or reporting when something isn't right—it's imperative to understand the processes as well as how to intervene. 

 

Reporting Sexual Violence

Student Conduct

Bystander Intervention

 

Reporting Sexual Violence

 

All forms of sexual harassment, including sexual violence, should be reported, no matter the severity. Oklahoma State University’s primary concern is safety; therefore individuals should not be deterred from reporting even if the use of alcohol or other drugs was involved.

 

The university encourages victims of sexual violence to talk to someone about what happened so they can receive support and so the university can respond appropriately. The university offers both confidential and non-confidential reporting options.

 

It is important to be aware that different individuals who victims can contact for assistance following an incident may have different responsibilities regarding confidentiality, depending on their position. Under state law, some individuals can assure a victim of confidentiality, including counselors and certified victims’ advocates. In general, however, any other university employee cannot guarantee complete confidentiality, unless specifically provided by law. Universities must balance the needs of the individual victim with an obligation to protect the safety and well-being of the community.

 

Different employees on campus have different abilities to maintain a victim’s request for confidentiality.

 

• Some are required to maintain near complete confidentiality; talking to them is sometimes called “privileged communication.”

 

• Other employees may talk to a victim in confidence, and generally report only that an incident occurred without revealing any personally identifying information. Disclosures to these employees will not trigger a university investigation into an incident against the victim’s wishes. This report is done through a Clery Report and does not include the victim’s name or other identifying information.

 

• Thirdly, some employees are required to report all the details of an incident (including the identities of both the victim and alleged perpetrator) to the Title IX Coordinator.

 

Student Conduct Process

 

The Office of Student Engagement is a Safe Zone space for the LGBTQ+ community. Any student is welcome to stop by the office Student Center, room 240 or call 405-945-9151 to obtain assistance in filing a complaint and learning more about our services.

 

 

Bystander Intervention

 

Be an intervener! Stop these incidents before they occur, and talk to your friends about it so that they will intervene as well! Our goal is to change the culture on the OSU campus by creating a community of leaders and active bystanders. The in-person 1 is 2 Many Presentation goes over specific examples, training you to become an active bystander. We encourage you to request a presentation so that you can begin making a difference on the OSU campus today!

 

Email okc.studentconduct@okstate.edu or call 405-945-3298 to book a presentation and read more below.

 

The Bystander Effect

The Bystander Effect predicts that people are less likely to help others when there are more people around a potentially dangerous situation. There are many reasons people might not step up to intervene in these situations. First, here is the thought process someone needs to have before making a conscious decision to intervene:

 

1. Notice a critical situation
Bystanders first must notice the incident taking place. It's important to become attune to what situations may be risky. For example, if you're at a party, and you see someone stumbling as they're being led into a different room or your friend has a partner that is very controlling. These are potentially dangerous situations that need attention. However, sometimes it can be hard to recognize them as dangerous if you’re unsure of what’s happening.

 

2. Recognize that situation as problematic
By "problematic," we mean a situation wherein there is risk of sexual or domestic violence occurring in the near future.

 

3. Develop a feeling of personal responsibility to do something
It has been found that often, people believe that someone else will help in a situation where there are many people around. This is especially true if you do not directly know the potential victim. However, it is important to realize that others may also be thinking the same thing. If you're unsure if you should do something, ask a friend what they think -- it might be the case that they've been thinking the same thing.

 

4. Believe you have the skills and knowledge to intervene
There are a number of different techniques that someone can use to intervene in a risky situation, some are listed below. There is always something you can do to help, even if it is just to pick up your phone and call the police. Further, by reading this information and requestion a presentation to become officially trained in Bystander Intervention, you are much more likely to help those around you.

 

5. Consciously decide to help
The choice to intervene is an intentional decision reached through this process.

 

There are many thoughts that might interrupt this process. Think about whether or not you have ever thought of any of the following reasons or heard others describe these thoughts...

 

Pluralistic Ignorance
"Nobody else thinks this is a problem..." Many times, people think that no one else thinks the situation is a problem because no one is stepping in to stop it. So, many people may internally disagree with a situation but outwardly do nothing.

 

Embarrassment
"I don't want to embarrass myself..." Often, people are afraid of embarrassing themselves or those involved in the situation. This is a very legitimate fear, but it is important to weigh the consequences of a potentially embarrassing moment with the consequences of experiencing sexual violence or other harmful situations.

 

Diffusion of Responsibility
"Someone else will take care of that..." Shockingly, research shows that the more people there are witnessing a potentially dangerous situation, the less likely it is that anyone individual will intervene because people assume that someone else will take care of it.

 

Fear of Getting Hurt
"What if I get hurt trying to help…" This is a very legitimate fear that we want you to consider. We always, always, always want you to consider your personal safety before intervening. However, there is always something you can do to help, even if it is simply calling the police. You can read below to find out more about safe ways to intervene.

 

In order to see how some of these thoughts may play out in a real-life situation, here are a couple of videos where this process is evident.

 

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